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« on: June 28, 2008, 21:01:29 PM » |
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CONSIDER THIS SITUATION :
You met with someone online, a young girl. She told you her age, younger than you but fell in the age range you want. You chatted with her for the first day, Then you get a number You make the first call. Got compelled to make the second call. Then you like the vocal character you see at the other end of the phone. Then you make more calls day after day, You started getting attached somehow, You started demanding for a picture, You haven't got it at this point, But you have every believe that you already love what/who you talk to.
What do you advice?
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« Reply #1 on: June 28, 2008, 21:07:18 PM » |
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hppnd tuu me b4, no word on tht 1
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« Reply #2 on: June 28, 2008, 21:33:14 PM » |
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Yeah, it happens to me with guys on distance that i demand asking for pictures or webcam.
I get tired of getting too many lame excuses not get picture/webcam---not fair i gave them mine (picture/or seeing me webcam).
No more! Enough! Distance relationship is big risk for me that i cannot afford with my heart being soften. I still wear breastplate shield. I don't believe in love neither!
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« Reply #3 on: June 28, 2008, 22:15:11 PM » |
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I mean after getting attached at least 2weeks to 6 months chatting on distance, still i did not get picture/webcam i requested for.
I am easily paranoid on online dating scam! I simply blocked my YIM/Live Windows/AIM if he failed not to show his picture/webcam.
That why i stop no more long distance dating I don't trust last year 2007. Rather to meet in person at least 100 miles radius driving distance around my residence in a public outings such as shopping, bookstore, coffee shop, restaurants, church or special occassion events.
By the way my hometown does not have public transportation, only isolated state highway between rural and big city 35 miles each other. Safe for me---i have my car to drive into big city---not a problem!
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« Reply #4 on: June 30, 2008, 11:39:58 AM » |
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sometimes when its hard to make a decision......its best to go with your instincts.....cus they hardly fail you....but you have to be able to identify when its an instinct and a wishful will to do something.......
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« Reply #5 on: June 30, 2008, 11:47:13 AM » |
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hmmm i have done it b4, she refused to send me pic, i begged her but she wont send the picture still, I only got to see her when she visited me for the first time, but i was not disappointed by what I see either, she a bit cute, she just want to surprise me. the relationship didn't last though.. God know why
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« Reply #6 on: June 30, 2008, 11:51:17 AM » |
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sometimes when its hard to make a decision......its best to go with your instincts.....cus they hardly fail you....
I agree.
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« Reply #7 on: June 30, 2008, 16:27:31 PM » |
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seconded as Thonia has said it all.
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« Reply #8 on: June 30, 2008, 16:50:19 PM » |
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« Reply #9 on: June 30, 2008, 18:55:05 PM » |
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hmmm
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« Reply #10 on: July 01, 2008, 06:23:43 AM » |
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wat? this hmm, i started it
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« Reply #11 on: July 01, 2008, 16:22:10 PM » |
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You started it---wetin?
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« Reply #12 on: July 01, 2008, 17:02:35 PM » |
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hmmmmm
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« Reply #13 on: July 01, 2008, 19:47:57 PM » |
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You again anoda "Hmmm", hear wetin so mi? Quit 'Hmmm' 
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« Reply #14 on: July 01, 2008, 20:00:00 PM » |
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so u can speak pigin like this pcgeekgirl
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« Reply #15 on: July 01, 2008, 20:07:41 PM » |
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Not speaking, but can write pidgin very very basic!
I have Yoruba-English Dictionary I found from Google Book I already downloaded. It is 457 pages PDF formatted using Adobe Reader.
Niyanu dat i write!
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« Reply #16 on: July 02, 2008, 03:18:27 AM » |
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wat thts not pidgin, tha real pidgin is frm warri, where i was born nd grew up still
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« Reply #17 on: July 02, 2008, 10:27:43 AM » |
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Are we now discussing pidgin? 
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« Reply #18 on: July 02, 2008, 12:24:54 PM » |
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Nothing wrong to bring pidgin discussion that based on instinct decision? That is part of instinct ensuring someone is not ye ye/419ers. Right?  In other forums, there are too many pretenders out there to claim they are Americans/UK/whatever they are from but actually live in Nigeria---no idea what is like in US/UK/Canada when they slip wrong message something else to be caught falsified!!!
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« Reply #19 on: July 03, 2008, 01:25:55 AM » |
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hahahaha, example ituen nd kenny. they re both frm malawi claiming nigerians
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« Reply #20 on: July 07, 2008, 15:31:43 PM » |
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In other forums, there are too many pretenders out there to claim they are Americans/UK/whatever they are from but actually live in Nigeria---no idea what is like in US/UK/Canada when they slip wrong message something else to be caught falsified!!!
That's true and kinda funny. . . madness in a different form i guess.
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« Reply #21 on: July 07, 2008, 15:47:41 PM » |
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that is kinda bad
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« Reply #22 on: July 08, 2008, 04:01:09 AM » |
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its not kinda bad, its horrible
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« Reply #23 on: July 25, 2008, 09:55:30 AM » |
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Decision based on instincts. . . I think it's the best.
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« Reply #24 on: July 25, 2008, 18:55:04 PM » |
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« Reply #25 on: December 01, 2008, 10:42:45 AM » |
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« Reply #26 on: December 01, 2008, 11:00:01 AM » |
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it may work out for someone but may be for the best. insticts never lie u know.
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